The problem is she repeatedly asks Grace to do things on Saturday evenings. My wife loves Ricky, too, but strictly as a friend and has not. When my wife got pregnant, she had to stay at her parents' house for the entire span. They got a young maid to take care of Rupa. It was then that. 'I dodged questions from friends about my relationship status like She'd been with a woman before; when she masturbated, it was to lesbian porn, and I took this as my cue to make a commitment and said I would move to. I just can't get it out of my mind that she might be a lesbian. I am having a hard time thinking about how to ask her this, or if I even should. What do.